Blog categorized as Anger management

Anger is in the eye of the beholder

03.07.25 02:37 AM - By Dr Elizma van der Smit - Comment(s)
Anger is in the eye of the beholder

A story about Jake:

 

Jake has been teaching for several years in a public school. Recently he had becoming increasingly frustrated with the lack of support from the school administration. He feels that his hard work goes unnoticed, especially when students don’t seem to appreciate his effor...

Use the TIPP skill to manage your anger!

22.06.25 01:42 AM - By Dr Elizma van der Smit - Comment(s)
Use the TIPP skill to manage your anger!

The TIPP skill is a practical DBT technique used for managing intense emotions, particularly anger or distress. TIPP stands for Temperature, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, and Paired muscle relaxation. Here’s how to use each component effectively for anger management:

 

1. Temperatu...

The Connection Between Shame and Anger

11.05.25 03:31 AM - By Dr Elizma van der Smit - Comment(s)
The Connection Between Shame and Anger

Shame and anger are two powerful emotions that can often feel like opposing forces, yet they are intricately connected and can influence one another in profound ways. Understanding this relationship is essential for personal growth, emotional regulation, and healthier interactions with others.

 

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Do you have sneaky anger?

28.04.25 04:22 AM - By Dr Elizma van der Smit - Comment(s)
Do you have sneaky anger?

Sneaky anger is like that mischievous little gremlin that hides in the shadows, waiting for the perfect moment to pounce! Imagine you’re at a party, surrounded by friends. Everything seems great, but then someone makes a comment that rubs you the wrong way. Instead of exploding like a shaken soda ca...

The effect of childhood on anger

21.04.25 03:30 AM - By Dr Elizma van der Smit - Comment(s)
The effect of childhood on anger

The psychological effects of childhood on the experience of anger can be profound and multifaceted. Here are some key aspects to consider:

 

  1. Modeling Behavior: Children learn how to express and manage anger by observing their parents and caregivers. If they witness healthy emotional regulation, t...